Updated: May 27, 2020
Money can be hard, it’s true. Budgeting can be daunting, true. That’s why you have me. To hold your hand (6 feet away due to our current pandemic situation) and walk with you step by step. You see, budgeting is my thing. I’ve been playing in excel spreadsheets and fine-tuning my family’s budget for the last eight years. When my husband and I sit down at night to watch the next streaming sensation (did you watch Tiger King, btw? Do they live in an alternate universe?!).
Anyway, when my husband and I sit down to watch some tv at night I get out my computer and start crunching numbers, updating formulas, and [insert nerdy excel joke]. I love this stuff. It makes me happy. It makes me geek out when I see that the “check digit” in my budget is at zero or above (more on that at another time). How many of you have rolled your eyes by now? How many of you have voiced out loud… “Melissa! Get a life!”?
Here’s my theory as to why budgeting can feel like a swear word:
People assume a budget will show you how much money you don’t have. It will limit you. However, I believe a budget shows you how much money you do have. It gives you a sense of control. It guides you into a life of freedom, not constraint.
[Sidebar: In order to budget you don’t have to be an excel geek. That’s why I’m here.
I will have all those formulas handed to you on a silver platter.]
I’m not silly enough to think that budgeting is some magic potion that grants you more money. It does take some work, but it will (and I promise this!) free up some mental space so you don’t have to worry about what bill is coming out of your checking account today. Go with me on this comparison for a minute.
As an interpreter, when you first start learning the concept of interpreting, your brain is soooo busy with everything happening, it’s like an out of body experience.
While in the interpreting program I remember a moment in class where I thought: I have to pay attention to the English verbally, think about the signs that match up to the meaning of what’s being said, put that into sign language, make sure my face is giving the correct grammar/punctuation/inflection, AND keep up with what’s happening in the room?!? Every ounce of processing is on your face. You look like you’ve been asked to solve the hardest physics problem ever completed by Albert Einstein (and I wonder why I have wrinkles!).
But, there comes a point where your brain goes on “auto-pilot” and the stuff that was sucking so much energy out of you is now happening more naturally, and you can focus on the message. It’s like a fog clearing miracle.
Have you read Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes, the creator of Grey’s Anatomy, Scandal, and How to Get Away with Murder? In her book, she talks about this “hum” she gets when she’s writing.
That is what happens to skilled interpreters. You start to hum (no, not literally). And that is what can happen to you! Once you have a budget in place, you don’t have to obsess over every little thing anymore. In the beginning, sure. But then… when the time is right… freedom! I cannot wait to be beside you when this happens. Maybe a little bit to say “I told you so”, but mostly to air high five you and see that smile on your face :-)
Here’s to you!
PSA: For anyone wondering why it would be so hard to interpret between American Sign Language and English, please know this. ASL is its own language. It has no connection to English, just like Spanish has no connection to English. Also, it has a different grammatical structure. Lastly, ASL is not universal; it’s the language utilized in the USA by the signing community (which can be comprised of Deaf, DeafBlind, Hard-of-Hearing, and hearing folks).